Let’s Talk About First Looks

A first look is a beautiful modern tradition that’s become popular all over the world. Instead of waiting to see each other at the ceremony, couples choose to have a private, intimate moment together earlier in the day—captured gently and discreetly by the photographer.

It usually takes place a couple of hours before the ceremony, away from family and guests, so the moment is just for the two of you. It’s emotional, meaningful, and often one of the most cherished parts of the day.

Why We LOVE First Looks (Especially in Winter)

Winter weddings + first looks = a perfect match.
Why? One word: light.
If your ceremony is in the afternoon, chances are that by the time you’ve signed the registry, the sun is already setting—or gone! That means no time for outdoor couple or bridal portraits unless we do them before the ceremony.

For couples getting married in May through August, we strongly recommend having your portraits taken earlier in the day. Don’t worry about doing them at 2 p.m.—winter light is soft and flattering all day long!

More Portraits? Yes, Please!

A first look gives you the chance to enjoy 40% more portraits of just the two of you. It’s a way to add another layer to your gallery—a different light, a different mood, and more memories.

💡 Pro Tip: If you’re getting married in summer, a first look shouldn’t replace your golden-hour couple session after the ceremony—it should add to it! Why? You guessed it... light again! The later in the day, the softer and dreamier the light becomes. Think golden, glowy, velvety skin… we’re obsessed with sunset!

So with a first look, you get two portrait sessions with two totally different vibes. That’s a photographer’s dream—and yours too!

Your Only Alone Time

First looks also give you one of the only truly quiet, private moments together on your wedding day. Once the ceremony is over, the day moves fast. You’ll be surrounded by love and attention, pulled in every direction. At the end of the night, you might look at your new spouse and say, “Wait… how was your day?!”

This moment lets you pause, connect, breathe, and soak it all in—just the two of you.

A Few Reasons Not to Do a First Look

While we love first looks, they’re not for everyone. Here’s why you might want to skip it:

You’re a traditionalist at heart. If you’ve always imagined your partner seeing you for the first time as you walk down the aisle, surrounded by all your loved ones, then stick with that vision! It’s your day—do what feels right.
Your timeline is already tight. A first look means you’ll need to be fully ready 1–2 hours before the ceremony, especially with a larger bridal party. If you’re not keen on starting that early or don’t have time for an additional portrait session, it might not be the best fit.

The Daddy/Daughter First Look

This one is for the brides with a soft spot for their dads. A Daddy/Daughter first look is often an incredibly emotional and heartfelt moment. For many fathers, it’s the exact second everything becomes real: “My little girl is getting married.”Cue the tears—ours included!

These moments are quick, sweet, and unforgettable. If you'd love to include one, we just ask that dad arrives on time—because if he’s late, it can throw off the entire bridal prep schedule, or we may have to skip it altogether.

Another lovely twist we’ve seen? Having Dad escort you to your first look with your partner. It’s such a meaningful way to tie it all together.

If this speaks to you, just let us know in advance—we’ll make sure we carve out the time it deserves.